How do i talk to my son about Gay sex?
Boomer asked:
I have a 13 year old son and he is gay. My father told me about sex at 13 and now I want to teach my son about sex. I know how important it is to talk to my son about sex. unfortunatly I don’t know anything about what two men do together. Can someone explain it to me.
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April 22nd, 2009 at 10:35 am
Try going to. They should have some resources to help you.
April 23rd, 2009 at 10:49 pm
He should get talked to about it at school. You don’t necessarily have to know – but i’d advise researching it yourself if you want. I’d just tell him to make sure he’s careful, practices safe sex and doesn’t rush anything.
The only thing thats really different from straight sex, is if your going anal you really need to take it slowly and use lubrication.
April 25th, 2009 at 12:13 am
Just show him the book of pretty flowers.
April 26th, 2009 at 8:21 pm
Did your father really have to talk to you about the mechanics? If your son is truly gay (and at 13 I’d be cautious about this) then rather than talk about the mechanics I think you may want to confine your chat to subjects such as emotions, relationships and safe sex.
You can get information on safe sex from : amongst other sources
April 28th, 2009 at 8:40 am
just tell him what happens and do you know williams
April 29th, 2009 at 11:10 am
Frank has the right idea. Contact PFLAG. In case you need to know who these people are, the letters stand for “Parents, Family and freinds of Lesbians And Gays. Someone there will have been through exactly what you’re dealing with.
Sex education is sex education. Talk to him about what his body is going through and why, and about the natural way of things and when you do, tell him that you understand that this is not what he identifies with but that it is important for him to know. It’s true…he should know it. As far as talking to him about gay sex, perhaps it is better left in the hands of someone from PFLAG who can speak to him about the health issues and such that are inherent.
Regardless of sexual orientation, all teens should know about STD’s and how to prevent them. This part of the education is pretty much universal.
I commend you, sir, for being a caring father and for being sensitive to your son’s particular need. He’s a lucky boy.
April 30th, 2009 at 2:53 am
You don’t have to know how men have sex to talk to him about it.Talk to him the same way you’d talk to him if he was straight. The exact same things (except pregnancy) can happen between same sex couples.
April 30th, 2009 at 4:45 am
You should talk to him about sex just like you would if he was straight. It’s not necessary to actually teach him “how to have sex”, just teach him about precautions, risks, and abstinence which is universal to all types of sex. There’s no need to bring up female or male.
Your son probably knows a lot about sex already. Keep it light and brief.